5 MISTAKES EVERY COUPLE MAKES WHILE TRAVELING

Traveling as a couple presents an array of challenges. If you’re planning to travel with your partner/best friend for the first time or have only traveled together on a few vacations, you’re sure to make some mistakes along the way. I have had the opportunity to take dozens of trips with boyfriends and some of my best friends over the last few years.

Here are my top 5 mistakes every couple makes while traveling and how to overcome them

TRYING TO FIT EVERYTHING IN

There is a reason that we are given 24 hours in a day. One cannot possibly fit in everything you would like to see in a specific place. When you visit a new destination, you may feel an urge to try and see everything. However, make sure that you are allowing yourself downtime and not overextending. Couples are more likely to get into fights when they are tired or even stressed.

NOT PLANNING

On the flip side of trying to fit everything in, some couples fail to plan at all. Being spontaneous can be fun but can lead to a stressful trip. Having a right balance between planning and winging it can make for a great trip. Make sure you are allowing yourself time for last-minute decisions if there comes a time where something sparks your interest. There is no need for an itinerary, but doing research and planning on certain things can be helpful.

WORRYING ABOUT WHAT'S GOING ON AT HOME/WORK

There is a reason that a vacation is called a vacation. The biggest advice I can give is to put your phone down, don't check your email, and simply unplug from your life at home or from work. Focus and enjoy the time you get with your partner or friend away from distractions of your home environments.

NOT COMPROMISING

Compromising in any relationship is key but comes into play while traveling as well. Trying to see things through your partner's eyes and being able to compromise when needed can make the world of difference. Try to get rid of expectations and focus on enjoying the time you have with one another. If there is still conflict and no compromise is willing to be made, spend some time apart.

NOT SPENDING TIME APART

This may seem odd but spending time apart can be a healthy activity that couples can do while on a trip. It is important to spend time enjoying hobbies or interests you have that differ from your partner. Make it a point to do something on your own whether it be going for a nice walk, grabbing a coffee or simply working out.